I hate it when people ask for builders, and then they just leave!!

Once, someone was wanting a kingdom rp built. so I joined and started making the layout, and the host just left the party, I still could whisper them.. so I did. “hey, you still wanting the kingdom rp built? I don’t mind working on it while you do something else.” I waited a bit, no response, I built some more and tried again, to only realize, they had flipping left.

Another time I joined to help build (a high school I think?) we were starting to make the layout until the host just disbanded the party. I went back to docks and the host was still trying to get builders. They even changed the ad to exp builders only or something.

Has this happened to anyone else? Is there any reason why someone may do this? This has been pretty much the only experience for me when working on maps.